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Sunday, March 14, 2010

These boys at ice skating?

when ever i go ice skating boys like hit on me i dontmind it but it gets annoying because they are like 15 and im 13 and they start touching me, the oter day i got one boy who got sent of the rink because kept toucihng me.


cant they hit on someone else?

These boys at ice skating?
You have to set the boundaries.





You say you don't mind it but it gets annoying . . . well, maybe you are sending mixed messages and the boys think it's ok. They probably hit on you because you may seem approachable. For you it may be fine up until a certain point, but some guys may take any opportunity to push the limit.





Stand up for yourself! Don't let it get to the point where you get annoyed . . . get out of the situation when you see it coming (or don't even let them touch you in the first place). If anything, just don't act like you're interested in them or they will continue to hit on you if they feel there's any chance!





You can be civil about it . . . just say you need to skate now and just skate off (the beauty of having skates on!). Or if they put their hand on you, just peel it off and throw it back. Or tell them that your police officer dad is sitting up in the stands watching you skate - HA!





Hope that helps!
Reply:tell them you have a girlfriend and then ignor them. i know when i go skating to practice on the weekend, my rink dosent have any freestyle sessions on the weekends so i have to use the public sessions and i always have people comming up to me asking how i do things and ect....i just answer thier question politely, put my ipod back on and skate away. if you cant skate a freestyle session, then just ignor it the best you can.....if your not a figure skater and are just skating for fun, then, ignor it anyway. im sure that if you get hit on at the rink, you also get hit on elsewhere...do whatever you do normally.
Reply:why dont you just ignore them and know that they are going to get in trouble for what they do so dont even try to get involved
Reply:tell them something REALLY gross. and if that doesn't work, just skate away. Plus, if you don't want that, don't go for the first step...flirting. Don't flirt. do something REALLY unnapealing. Or, bring a friend. If they still flirt and touch you with your friend around, just skate away with her, and when they can still hear, say something like "eeew! did you see his FACE?" that should stop it for good. Good Luck
Reply:it cuz they like you and are flirting. be happy
Reply:ok! well i would report them. you can never know about what they are so, or take a family member with you and if they are they just keep on doing your thing then go to your member. if they see you talking to adult they shouild leave you alone
Reply:avoid them like the plague. do u figure skate? if u do, just do tricks non stop, or ignore them, they'l stop eventually
Reply:Tell them you are gay. problem solved
Reply:Lol dont worry they obviosly fancie you just start talking to them you could make friends or you can just ask them to leave them alone .. you must be a verry ood skater because you have caught there attention lol .



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