My wife won't go Ice Skating with me, she is just 40 yrs young. Do I have to tell other women to join me??

I cannot believe my wife said "No!". She always says "no" to going out bowling, playing tennis, to cook out at the parks, to go ice skating at the ice skate rink. I always have to ask other divorce or widow women to join me in having fun in life. I always end up going alone everywhere. So now I am making friends with other women, because I hate being alone everywhere. In a sense I feel guilty because of this matter. But I explain to the other female friends about how my wife does not want to join me in any fun in life. I just want to be fully happy in life. Its very hard to be fully happy with a woman that does not enjoy the same things as me. Thanks everyone.

My wife won't go Ice Skating with me, she is just 40 yrs young. Do I have to tell other women to join me??
WELL maybe she WOULD go if you would back off the other women!!





im 42 I do things with my husband because he has respect for me...maybe you should do the same


she sounds DEPRESSED..be more sensitive instead of acting like a selfish little boy!
Reply:You must have seen something "fun" in her when you married her. It's great that you feel young enough and active enough to go do all these things, but not everyone on earth gets a thrill from sports and outdoor activities. As long as she doesn't object to your doing this with other women, I don't see the problem, and if you reallly think that anyone buys it that you can't have fun with other men, think again!
Reply:You are a human being...........get real...........you are playing with fire! Yes, your wife has problems.........but you are on the verge of an affair. Please go to marriage counseling if you are serious about staying in this marriage. If not, proceed as you are ..................
Reply:Hmmm, I don't know why you feel the need to purposely do these activities with other women. Maybe accepting your wife's choices would be a good start.





I'm only 30 and I wouldn't do any of those activities either. My husband is fine with it.
Reply:ok if u were my hubby out making friends to do sweet things with i would take ur man hood,but then again i love doing all that stuff,does she get mad?? does she know?? if shes ok with it i dont see a problem,be a man and get some guy friends,try basketball or joining a soft ball team.
Reply:yikes.....I think when your helpin these women put their ice skates on and telling them your wife is no fun, that she is going to be out with other men having another kind of fun.





You need to be careful here; I hope those other women are worth it !!
Reply:Did you try asking your wife what SHE wants to go do with you? Do you think maybe your wife has a confidence problem but that your behavior makes it worse? Is there anything at all she enjoys doing in public with you?
Reply:And you didnt know this before you got married? So now you complain. Maybe try asking her what she would like to do. Would you sit at home and kniw a sweater? But how would you feel if the gardner helped her knit.
Reply:I would be willing to bet that YOU don't do any thing SHE asks you to do.





Turnabout is fair play. If you won't do it for her, why should she do it for you?
Reply:I am sure your wife is hardly fully happy with a womanizer...You probably embarrass the heck out of her with your hanging around other women all the time...so she would rather stay at home to save her pain.
Reply:It's ok to have different interests than your spouse. Go Ice Skating just don't go with other women unless you are planning to get divorced.
Reply:Listen..if you continue hanging around divorced women, you r going to end up cheating..is that what u want? To cheat on her? Do u have kids..maybe she is exhausted taking care of the kids..
Reply:I am 41 and my husband travels and I get lonely but when he is home I like to be with him and do fun things together. I know that he likes to watch TV and unless it is football which I love or hockey which I like our tastes are different. I hate Nascar and that takes Friday night, Saturday and Sunday. Uggg he knows I hate it and I won't watch it with him and it makes me mad but he does not care. I respect him enough (too much) to not go out looking to pass the time with other guys...esp. under his nose.





If it were me I would try doing something new even if I didn't like it. If you keep going with other women you will soon not have to worry about your wife doing anything with you. That is disrespect for her. Sounds like maybe you have an ego problem....like too big of one. I say get over yourself and think about how she feels.
Reply:I have a question for you. Did she EVER do any of those things? If she has never had fun with you and you keep asking her, then you have your answer.


Do you love her? Have you told her you love her? Has she told you she loves you?


Don't be a jerk and fool around with other women. You want to go bowling? Join a league or a bowling team. Same thing for tennis. For skating look to see if they have any mwn's leagues to play hockey. Get some male friends!!!


Get a life! What does your wife want to do? Maybe you could make an effort to participate in her interests.


I think maybe she could be depressed. She may be withdrawing from you because of this. Try to get her to get some help. Look up the symptoms of depression and show them to her. Talk to her. Try to convince her to see a doctor about this. Maybe she is going through menopause and she doesn't feel like herself anymore. A doctor can help her with that too. I went through menopause that young and I can tell you if she doen't get help, it could get worse.


If she still refuses to get help, then you should separate and start the divorce process. Good luck.
Reply:Everyone is so upset with you due to the fact you are a JERK and refuse to except that fact.


When you are married you DO NOT have woman that you go and party with. I like the idea you make it seem it's all nice in this question what about all the drunken partying you have been doing with them?


Even though you keep changing your ID your questions are still there for others to see and most are smart enough to put 2+2 together to know where the real problem lies ....... that is if there really is a problem and you are not just making all this up. The reason I say this is no one could be so dang stupid to know what you claim your are doing would be soo wrong.


I so feel for your wife not you. You really should divorce so she can find someone who will love her, care for her and not be so damn self centered



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